I was 7 when my parents divorced and 23 when my first marriage ended. Then in my 40’s, I separated from my children’s father. So, I’ve spent many years trying to understand and heal from this experience. (Don’t worry, I’ve got it now!)
Going from being married to being happily single again isn’t easy, despite the number of couples going through divorce and whether or not you were the one who wanted out of your marriage. The truth is there are days it really hurts and seems incredibly unfair.
Despite trying everything… worrying, reading blogs and articles on separating, going to therapy, bargaining, railing against how unfair it all was…
there was something I had to figure out and I wonder if you’ve been feeling it too?
Have you found yourself lonely or feeling unsupported and isolated in your heartache?
Have you tried to build your case against them? Or are you dealing with guilt and resentments?
Are you ready to start healing? To start to feel the optimism and hope that’s been gone for a while…
Are you ready to find out what's missing?
It wasn’t until I was on my knees in my attorney’s office that I realized, I had to change how I was approaching this entire experience. I had to accept what was truly going on. To take back my life. To figure out how to make my future one I wanted to live. And just like that, I began truly focusing on my healing.